“Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” 1 Timothy 4:12
In today’s world, influence is everywhere – from social media to the workplace. But for a Christian, influence is more than a tool for power or success; it’s a responsibility entrusted by God to reflect Christ’s character. Stewardship of influence in the Christian life is a beautiful responsibility, one that shapes how others see Christ through us. Influence, in its purest form, is not about seeking power but about honouring God and reflecting His love.
The first truth to recognise is that influence is a gift from God. Romans 13:1 states that all authority and influence come from God. Therefore, our role is to use it for His glory, not for our own ambitions. As ambassadors of Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20), our words, actions, and decisions should align with the gospel. Influence should draw people to Jesus, not to ourselves. Jesus set the perfect example in Mark 10:45: “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” True influence is about serving others, not seeking personal elevation. Proverbs 11:3 says, “The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” A person’s influence can be powerful, but if it lacks integrity, it ultimately leads to destruction.
Stewarding influence involves sacrificing personal comfort for God’s will. Abraham, Moses, Paul, and most importantly, Jesus, all gave up personal gain to fulfil God’s purpose. James 3:1 warns that those who teach and lead will be judged more strictly. Influence comes with accountability before God, and we must use it with wisdom and humility. In the Kingdom, influence is rooted in love, not control (John 13:35). True influence is not about asserting power but about genuinely caring for others and pointing them to Christ through our actions. As Paul instructed Timothy, “Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season” (2 Timothy 4:2). Our words and actions must reflect the truth of the scripture, guiding others to Christ in every season of life.
Family is one of the most crucial places for godly influence. Parents, spouses, and siblings can shape the faith of those closest to them. Children and family members watch your actions more than they hear your words (Deuteronomy 6:6-7). Displaying unconditional love and patience with family members, especially during conflicts, teaches others about Christ’s grace. Christians are called to shine their light in their workplaces (Matthew 5:16). Whether you are a boss, employee, or colleague, your character and work ethic should reflect Christ. Influence comes from how you treat coworkers, even when they don’t share your faith (Ephesians 4:32). So, be a person of truth and integrity (Proverbs 16:28).
There are many benefits of godly influence. Daniel remained faithful to God in a pagan workplace, and his integrity led to him being promoted and respected (Daniel 6:3-5). Peter’s mother-in-law was influential, though she is only briefly mentioned in the Gospels. Her story, found in Mark 1:29-31, Matthew 8:14-15, and Luke 4:38-39, shows how even small acts of service can have great spiritual significance. When Jesus visited Peter’s house, He found Peter’s mother-in-law sick with a fever. He touched her hand, and she was instantly healed. This shows Jesus’ power and compassion, but her response to the healing is what makes her truly influential. After being healed, she immediately got up and began to serve Jesus and those with Him (Mark 1:31). This is significant because:
She recognised that healing wasn’t just for her benefit but for service.
Her hospitality created an environment where Jesus could continue His ministry.
Peter’s home, where she lived, became a key location for Jesus’ work. Later in the same chapter (Mark 1:32-34), we see crowds gathering at the door, bringing the sick and demon-possessed to Jesus. Her willingness to serve helped create a space where many encountered Christ.
When believers fail to live according to God’s principles, they can push others away from faith rather than drawing them toward Christ. Our actions should glorify God, not cause His name to be disrespected. “For as it is written: ‘The name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you.’” Romans 2:24. In 2 Samuel 12:14, Nathan tells David that his sin with Bathsheba has given the enemies of the Lord an opportunity to blaspheme.
As you reflect on the influence God has entrusted to you, consider how you can use it to serve others and glorify Him. Ask yourself: How does my influence reflect Christ’s love and humility? May we each steward our influence wisely, remembering that true greatness is found in serving.
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kay.alli@legalview.co.uk