Abuse of Authority

“In Christ, I could boldly command, but I choose to appeal to you with love. This message comes from Paul—an elderly man, now a prisoner of Christ Jesus—” Philemon 1:8-9.

In this letter to Philemon, the Apostle Paul urges forgiveness and acceptance of Onesimus, highlighting the significance of love and reconciliation. Paul encourages Christians today to prioritize love, forgiveness, and reconciliation in their relationships.

Despite Paul’s authority to compel, he opts for persuasion, inspiring others to act with love. Christ did the same, and we’re encouraged to follow suit—being all things to all, that we may win a few.

Apply Philemon’s principles in daily life—approach conflicts with love and forgiveness. Seek understanding, communicate openly, and reconcile with those you may disagree with. Demonstrate kindness and grace, fostering unity and compassion.

2 Corinthians 5:11 reinforces the idea of persuading others through love.

“Since, then, we know what it is to fear the Lord, we try to persuade others. What we are is plain to God, and I hope it is also plain to your conscience.”

Applying these principles promotes understanding, open communication, and reconciliation, aligning with unity and compassion in relationships.

While God can make us do His will, He appeals to us, hoping we’ll willingly serve Him in love. God could force and control our will to do as He wills but chooses not to. Removing someone’s ability to give consent or make choices is considered a form of abuse. God is waiting for willing heart and cheerful givers according to the Word of God. No one should have influence that compels us other than the love for God.

Kay Alli