Eating Together

“While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew’s house, many tax collectors and sinners came and ate with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, ‘Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?’” Matthew 9:10-11

There is something special about sharing a meal. In many cultures, especially in Jewish tradition, eating together goes far beyond satisfying physical hunger. It is a meaningful act of fellowship, acceptance, and genuine friendship. Sitting at the same table symbolises trust, peace, and the forging of bonds between individuals. Inviting someone into your home for a meal is one of the clearest ways to show acceptance and extend warmth.

Jesus understood the power of this simple act. When He chose to dine with tax collectors, sinners, and society’s outcasts, He wasn’t just sharing food—He was sharing love, grace, and acceptance. It was a bold and radical move, one that challenged the rigid boundaries drawn by religious leaders of His time. The Pharisees questioned Him, bewildered that a respected teacher would associate with those considered “unclean.” Yet, Jesus saw beyond labels. He saw people in need of compassion and salvation.

In Luke’s Gospel, we witness a powerful moment when Jesus calls out to Zacchaeus, “Today I must stay at your house” (Luke 19:5). The crowd murmured, “He has gone to be the guest of a sinner,” but what seemed scandalous to onlookers became the catalyst for Zacchaeus’s life transformation. Sharing a meal with Jesus brought salvation to his entire household.

The kingdom of God is like a grand banquet where all are invited—rich or poor, righteous or repentant sinners (Luke 14:15-24). Jesus’ table is wide enough for everyone. His willingness to sit with those shunned by society sent a clear message: You are valued. You are loved.

Yet, as powerful as a meal can be for good, it can also be misused. Consider Esther’s banquet (Esther 7:1-3), which was strategically planned to save her people through wisdom and courage. In stark contrast, King Herod’s feast led to a grave injustice when pride, manipulation, and careless words cost John the Baptist his life (Matthew 14:6-9). These examples remind us that what we do in moments of fellowship matters. Meals can be opportunities for healing and connection—or for harm, if we are not guided by wisdom.

So, what can we learn from Jesus’ example?

• Extend Kindness Freely: Don’t shy away from those society overlooks. True holiness isn’t about distancing ourselves from people; it’s about drawing near to those who need spiritual healing.
• Use Hospitality for Good: Opening your home and sharing a meal can be a powerful ministry tool. It’s a chance to show love, listen to stories, and share the hope of the Gospel.
• Be Wise in Social Settings: Words spoken over a meal carry weight. Avoid making rash promises or letting pride and peer pressure dictate your choices.
• Seek God’s Guidance: Especially when faced with significant decisions, take time to pray and seek divine wisdom. Meals can be moments where important conversations unfold—make them count.

Jesus’ actions challenge us to see every shared meal as an opportunity to build bridges, offer grace, and reflect God’s heart. Imagine how many lives could be touched if we approached our tables with this perspective!

Let’s embrace the power of hospitality. Let’s make room at our tables for those who need love, acceptance, and a taste of God’s kindness. After all, when we share a meal with others, we may just be sharing a moment that changes a life forever.

Kay Alli